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A Collaborative Divorce Coach is a mental health professional who helps you recognize, communicate, and negotiate emotional concerns during the divorce process. The Collaborative Divorce Coach is a part of a specialized team of professionals. This specialized team works with parties who choose to divorce amicably.

Instead of divorcing couples engaging in emotionally charged conflicts, the Collaborative Divorce Coach can assist parties in thinking more clearly, managing emotions, and behaving respectfully and constructively with one another. Coaching is focused on the here and now, and helping parties learn to communicate and resolve conflict effectively.

This is accomplished by:

Teaching and coaching respectful and active listening

Assisting the parties in understanding each other's viewpoints

Formulating goals for your individual futures

Remaining focused on the best interest of the child(ren) and planning for their futures

Supporting both parties in putting the child(ren)’s needs ahead of their own

Ms. Trotter Fleming is a trained Collaborative Divorce Coach. As such, she is a member of the Oklahoma Academy of Collaborative Professionals. See her profile here.

"I love love love being a divorce coach!"

~Trey Trotter Fleming

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