2022 - Present​

COVID changed everything... we closed our Ponca City brick and mortar building and moved back to the Tulsa area where Trey Trotter, LMFT is doing mostly telehealth services. We have an office in Tulsa where we see clients in person on a VERY limited basis. Trey Trotter, LMFT became and Oklahoma Board Approved Continuing Education provider. In 2025, Trey Trotter, LMFT began writing clinical resources for clinicians, attorneys and the Court and the public regarding resources for high conflict cases. Stay tuned, CEU's, books and resources will be available soon... 

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2019:

A (((BIG))) year for us!  We re-opened in Jenks and we had an additional location in Stillwater. Then COVID hit....and due to the pandemic we went exclusively virtual for a few years. Trey Trotter, LMFT became an Oklahoma Board Approved LMFT Supervisor

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2017:

Trey Trotter, LMFT trained 16 supervisors with "27" hours of curriculum as set fort by the Supervised Visitation Network. All our professional supervisors have been screened, trained and tested in providing professional supervised visitation services.

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2015:

Trey Trotter, LMFT presented at the Tulsa County Judicial Conference on Supervised and Therapeutic Supervised Visitation practices. Due to a death in her family, Trey Trotter, LMFT closed her Tulsa location and began practicing full time at her Ponca City location.

 

2014:

Seeing a need to bring professional national standards for providing professional Supervised Visitation services, Ms. Trotter, along with two other professional supervised visitation providers, formed the "Oklahoma Chapter" of the Supervised Visitation Network. She is currently Founder and President of the previous Chapter (the SVN restructured state chapters). She also expanded her Supervised Visitation Services and had eight supervisors on staff, one of which was bilingual.

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2013:

Ms. Trotter began teaching "Co-Parenting Through Divorce" in Ponca City.

 

2012:

Ms. Trotter became trained and certified as a Collaborative Divorce Coach (40 hour training).

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2011:

Due to an illness in the family, Trey Trotter, LMFT opened a second office in her hometown of Ponca City.

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2008:

Trey Trotter, LMFT helped launch and taught Anger Management classes in Tulsa. She also wrote the curriculum for Blending Stepfamilies, and taught the Positive Parenting Class. Throughout this time, Ms. Trotter was developed many curricula and gave presentations at various locations, including American Airlines, Street School, the OSU-Tulsa campus, and the OSU Medical Center in Tulsa.

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2007:

Ms. Trotter returned to the Tulsa County Courthouse for another year as the Family Resource Coordinator. She also began teaching as an adjunct instructor at OSU-Tulsa. In 2007, Ms. Trotter received training and began conducting Adoption Home S​tudies.

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2003:

Ms. Trotter expanded her practice and began conducting Custody Evaluations. To date, she has conducted over 30 custody evaluations, has been qualified as an expert witness approximately 100 times in a variety of roles, and is currently listed on both of the approved lists of Custody Evaluators and Mediators in Tulsa County.

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​2001: LAUNCH OF TREY TROTTER, MS & ASSOCIATES

"I'm so thankful for my parents. I always wanted to have a private practice like my dad, who's a retired optometrist. My mom is a 'natural born therapist' who inspired me to want to help other people."

~Trey Trotter, LMFT

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Ms. Trotter opened her private practice, "Trey Trotter, MS and Associates" in 2001. Her office grew very quickly. In addition to conducting Counseling, Supervised Visitation, and Mediation, Ms. Trotter received and began conducting over 60 Parenting Coordination cases within the first six weeks of opening.

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1999-2001, 2006-2007:

Ms. Trotter was involved in launching another grass roots program, "The Families in Transition Program." Tulsa County recognized that divorce and separation were hard on children and sought to reorganize the process of going through divorce in an effort to minimize the negative impacts for families. This program made it mandatory for parties to participate in Mediation before going to trial. Ms. Trotter was the Family Resource Coordinator, and provided information and referral to the Court, attorneys, court personnel, and people going through domestic court. In this role, she provided on-site mediation and crisis intervention. Ms. Trotter assisted with Parenting Plan Conferences as well as Protective Order dockets. During this time, Ms. Trotter was a member of the Families in Transition Working Committee, which wrote the Order Appointing Parenting Coordinator that in its amended form courts still use today. Members of this committee also assisted with writing the Oklahoma Statute that governed the practice of Parenting Coordination, making Oklahoma the first state to pass legislation of its kind. She was also on the Quality Assurance Panel which wrote the standards for professionals who wished to practice Parenting Coordination, made suggestions for systems improvement, oversaw complaints, and established criteria for and maintained approved lists of Mediators, Parenting Coordinators, and Custody Evaluators. During this time, Ms. Trotter also served on The Children and the Law Committee. She also received her Specialization in Domestic Abuse and Child Custody Mediation pursuant to  43 O.S. § 107.3, as well as Advanced Issues in Child Custody Mediation for a total of 55 hours of Mediation Training. Trey Trotter, LMFT was also trained in Parenting Coordination and Custody Evaluations and met with colleagues and the Court in quarterly meetings to keep current of best practice standards. She also authored and taught the Surviving High Conflict course in the Tulsa County Courthouse during her tenure as Family Resource Coordinator.

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1998: 

Trey Trotter, LMFT completed 40 hours Mediation Training pursuant to12 O.S. § 1825.

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1996 - 2016:

Taught Helping Children Cope with Divorce and Coparenting Through Divorce (Tulsa and Ponca City)

 

​1996 - 1997:

Ms. Trotter has had considerable experience in assisting the launching of grass roots programs. Tulsa lead the nation in a pilot program whereby the social services portion of Head Start was contracted out to a social services agency. Ms. Trotter worked for the social services agency as a Supervisor for Head Start Family Support Specialists. She co-supervised a staff of over twenty specialists in addition to carrying her own case load. Ms. Trotter also began teaching "Helping Children Cope with Divorce" and parenting classes.

 

1995:

After completing 250 client face-to-face hours with a Supervisor & Reflective Team observing, Ms. Trotter worked at the Family Counseling Department and the Home-Based Therapy Department at Family and Children's Services. She also assisted with the Families Interacting in New Directions (FIND) group doing parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT).