Licensed Marital and Family Therapist

Masters Degree, Family Relations & Child  Development  with Specialization in Marriage & Family Therapy 


TREY TROTTER FLEMING, LMFT


 



Licensed Marital & Family Therapist

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"Welcome to my website and it's a pleasure to meet you.  I hope you enjoy your visit here & please contact us if you have any questions or would like to schedule an appointment.  I look forward to meeting you.

~Trey Trotter Fleming, LMFT

INTRODUCTION:

Ms. Trotter Fleming, LMFT has a Bachelors of Psychology with a Minor in English, and a Masters of Science in Family Relations and Child Development with Specialization in Marital and Family Therapy. She is a Licensed Marital and Family Therapist through the State of Oklahoma and an Oklahoma  approved LMFT supervisor.  Ms. Trotter Fleming is a member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, the Oklahoma Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, and The Oklahoma Academy of Collaborative Professionals. She currently enjoys teaching Helping Children Cope with Divorce and Co-Parenting Through Divorce.  Ms. Trotter Fleming is a public speaker and frequently gives presentations to companies, groups, teachers, counselors, judges, bar associations, colleagues, and universities throughout Oklahoma.  Throughout her career, Ms. Trotter Fleming has given various interviews on Fox News, KOTV Channel 6 News, and the TBN Network over various topics.  She has participated in several radio spots in Tulsa and Ponca City.

PROFESSIONAL BACKGROUND:

1995:

Ms. Trotter Fleming worked at the Family Counseling Department and the Home-Based Therapy Department at Family and Children's Services. She also assisted with the Families Interacting in New Directions (FIND) group doing parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT).


1996:

Ms. Trotter Fleming has had considerable experience in assisting the launching of grass roots programs. In 1997, Tulsa lead the nation in a pilot program whereby the social services portion of Head Start  was contracted out to a social services agency.  Ms. Trotter Fleming worked for the social services agency as a Supervisor for Head Start Family Support Specialists. She co-supervised a staff of over twenty specialists in addition to carrying her own case load.  Ms. Trotter Fleming also began teaching "Helping Children Cope with Divorce" and parenting classes.

 

1999:

Ms. Trotter Fleming was involved in launching another grass roots program, "The Families in Transition Program."  Tulsa County recognized that divorce and separation were hard on children and sought to reorganize the process of going through divorce in an effort to minimize the negative impacts for families. This program made it mandatory for parties to participate in Mediation before going to trial.  Ms. Trotter Fleming was the Family Resource Coordinator, and provided information and referral to the Court, attorneys, court personnel, and people going through domestic court.  In this role, she provided on-site mediation and crisis intervention.  Ms. Trotter Fleming assisted with Parenting Plan Conferences as well as Protective Order dockets.  During this time, Ms. Trotter Fleming was a member of the Families in Transition Working Committee, which wrote the Order Appointing Parenting Coordinator that in its amended form courts still use today.  Members of this committee also assisted with writing the Oklahoma Statute that governed the practice of Parenting Coordination, making Oklahoma the first state to pass legislation of its kind.  She was also on the Quality Assurance Panel which wrote the standards for professionals who wished to practice Parenting Coordination, made suggestions for systems improvement, oversaw complaints, and established criteria for and maintained approved lists of Mediators, Parenting Coordinators, and Custody Evaluators.  During this time, Ms. Trotter Fleming also served on The Children and the Law Committee.

2001: LAUNCH OF TREY TROTTER, MS & ASSOCIATES

"I'm so thankful for my parents.  I always wanted to have a private practice like my dad, who's a retired optometrist.  My mom is a 'natural born therapist' who inspired me to want to help other people."

                                                                         ~Trey Trotter Fleming, LMFT

2001:

Ms. Trotter Fleming opened her private practice, "Trey Trotter, MS and Associates" in 2001.  Her office grew very quickly.  In addition to conducting Counseling, Supervised Visitation, and Mediation, Ms.  Trotter Fleming received and began conducting over 60 Parenting Coordination cases within the first six weeks of opening.  

 

2003: 

Ms. Trotter Fleming expanded her practice and began conducting Custody Evaluations. To date, she has conducted over 30 custody evaluations, has been qualified as an expert witness approximately 100 times in a variety of roles, and is currently listed on both of the approved lists of Custody Evaluators and Mediators in Tulsa County.   


2007: 

Ms. Trotter Fleming returned to the Tulsa County Courthouse for another year as the Family Resource Coordinator.  She also began teaching as an adjunct instructor at OSU-Tulsa.  In 2007, Ms. Trotter Fleming received training and began conducting Adoption Home Studies. 


2008:

Ms. Trotter Fleming helped launch and taught Anger Management classes in Tulsa.  She also wrote the curriculum for Blending Stepfamilies, and taught the Positive Parenting Class.  Throughout this time, Ms. Trotter Fleming was developed many curricula and gave presentations at various locations, including American Airlines, Street School, the OSU-Tulsa campus, and the OSU Medical Center in Tulsa.     


2011: 

Ms. Trotter Fleming opened a second office in her hometown of Ponca City.   

 

2012: 

Ms. Trotter Fleming became trained as a Collaborative Divorce Coach.    

 

2013:

Ms. Trotter Fleming began teaching "Co-Parenting Through Divorce" in Ponca City. 

 

2014:

Ms. Trotter Fleming expanded her Supervised Visitation Services and has eight supervisors on staff, one of which is bilingual. 


2015:

Ms. Trotter closed her Tulsa location and is practicing full time at her Ponca City location. 


Currently, Ms. Trotter Fleming works full time at her Ponca City office.  In her practice, Ms. Trotter Fleming provides counseling services as well as forensic court services (see Menu Tabs at the top for more specific information related to each service.)  Her offices serve a wide range of counties, including Kay, Pawnee, Payne, Creek, and surrounding counties.  Ms. Trotter Fleming will soon be conducting parenting classes at her Ponca City location, as well as offering continuing education seminars to her colleagues.  Click on the icons below to take you to the websites affiliated with each organization to whom Ms. Trotter Fleming maintains membership.  For more information, email us at treytrottersoffice@gmail.com or complete the "For More Information" at the bottom of the page.

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